Thursday, October 6, 2011
i cont control my feelings for you
Lost In My Thoughts
Sitting in the corner of my bed
Lost deep in my thought.
With my dreams on one side
And emotions on the other.
Life for me has become,
A stupid journey,
Where I find myself always lost
Not knowing where I stand.
With no mentors to guide,
None to show the right path.
Dreams colliding with reality,
With fears of loosing them
Without even putting the First step,
I see them running out of my small hands.
Had a loving father, but
His presence is now lost.
With Mommy striving all alone,
The only one to support
Working hard all day long.
With a dream "Never to see me wrong"
She all alone brought me up.
Today I know, how hard it is
To support a child without help.
I had seen her cry, and
Sobbing all night, without
Making me realise.
Tried to give me everything,
She taking all the pain.
Today I feel proud, That
She's always there beside.
Life has altogether a new meaning
And I live it with pride.
But,
There's a father, who's presence.
For me is omnipresence.
Even today I miss him a lot
Sitting in the corner of my bed
Lost deep in my thought.
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Lost deep in my thought.
With my dreams on one side
And emotions on the other.
Life for me has become,
A stupid journey,
Where I find myself always lost
Not knowing where I stand.
With no mentors to guide,
None to show the right path.
Dreams colliding with reality,
With fears of loosing them
Without even putting the First step,
I see them running out of my small hands.
Had a loving father, but
His presence is now lost.
With Mommy striving all alone,
The only one to support
Working hard all day long.
With a dream "Never to see me wrong"
She all alone brought me up.
Today I know, how hard it is
To support a child without help.
I had seen her cry, and
Sobbing all night, without
Making me realise.
Tried to give me everything,
She taking all the pain.
Today I feel proud, That
She's always there beside.
Life has altogether a new meaning
And I live it with pride.
But,
There's a father, who's presence.
For me is omnipresence.
Even today I miss him a lot
Sitting in the corner of my bed
Lost deep in my thought.
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When to Propose ?
Now since you know How to Propose, you now need to know When to Propose to avoid a Heart Break or Love Fail.You need to be sure about some facts so that you do not regret in future. Possibly the person you like might be person whom you known for a long time or might be a person you met recently. You like him/her, like spending time together, like his/her sense of humor and so on. But, now you are in a dilemma whether to propose or not.
Try to analyze these:
1. Have you met his/her family? Do they like you? Are you sure they will not object?
2. Can you spend the rest of your life with the person? Do you trust him/her?
3. Is this "the first face" you want to see in the morning, when you wake up?
4. Do you share the same trust and good comfort level?
5. Are you guys honest with each other?
6. Do you forget yourself when you are with the person?
7. Can you accept him/her the way he/she is? Does he/she feels the same as you do. "If NO, then, your friendship is at stake by expressing your feelings."
8. Does he share his/her feelings about the important things in life with you?
9. Is he/she always there, even when you have the slightest of problems?
10. Is he/she able to guess what you are going to say, even before you utter the words?
If the answers to these questions are also positive, then don't wait anymore. Just go and tell your partner how much you love him/her.
Wrong Ways of Proposing?
Just like there are the right ways of proposing someone, there are also worst proposal ways. These ways irritate the other person, rather than, making him/her feel special. So, make sure that you never ever use any of the wrong ways of proposing.
1. Never ever propose on the phone. The method is highly impersonal and takes away the romance out of a proposal.
2. Don't use e-mail or chat or sms to tell someone how much you love him/her.
3. Another wrong way of proposing someone is to ask his/her friend to convey the message.
They are your feelings and you need to express them yourself.
How to Propose ?
How to propose to a Girl ?
Before proposing to a girl make sure that you have done your homework. Homework does not mean to practise your dialogues, it means to study the girl whom you would like to propose. Different girls have different temperament. Many girls do like to be proposed secretly and many do like to be proposed in public. You need to ensure that you pick up the right method to propose them.
Let me explain using an Example .....
OK lets imagine you are proposing a reserved kinda girl, you both know that there is a strong feeling for the other, the girls expects you to propose her somewhere where there is less crowd, better if you both are alone, but instead you propose her in public, she might say YES but immediately might feel embarased.
Now I hope its clear !!
There are different ways to propose a girl:
1. A place where there is no one apart from you both, an open place amidst natures beauty possibly near a sea shore in a full moon night, you go down on your knee, take her hand in yours and kiss her hand, displaying a b'ful ring and proposing her for a marriage. For sure you can see the tears of happiness rolling down her eyes, ** This the best method and is applicable for girls of all temprament, you can even do this in public **.
2.There is no need to use fanciful words to impress her. If it does not work the right way, it might lead to a rejection, In case you are using heavy literature make sure its put across the rigth way. The best way is to express your true feeling in the simplest manner. You might fumble but be Short & Simple. Like " I Love You and I meant it and would Love to spend the rest of my life with you ". Girls like the fumbleness as it reveals your honesty (as far as I know).
3. Invite her to a quiet and romantic dinner for just the two of you, at your place. Prepare all her favorite dishes and play her favorite music.
4. Prepare a banner, with the words "I Love You" or "Will You Marry Me". Stick this banner outside her home or her office, where she is bound to notice it. Please do not use her name on that banner as it might embarase her . Better to use some nickname that only you two know.
5. Proposing at the same place where both of you met for the first time or the place both of you have fond memories of, is a good idea.
6. If you have some beaches nearby, drive there in the evening. With soft music playing in your car, propose her when the sun is setting. The whole ambience will make her go weak in the knees.
Note: There are many more improvised methods, it completely depends on the individual.
Note: If I would have been a girl I would love to proposed in public amidst natures beauty in a full moon night & would love to propose a girl the same way if I get a chance.
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How to propose to a Guy ?
This is something least expected. Never Expect a Girl to propose, if a girl likes a guy she do anything to get his attention and will make him propose, very rare senarios you will find a girl taking this tough step to propose a guy if she find all her work go in vain. If you are planning to propose a guy, let me tell you one thing; Guys Love it the bigger way. Kind of Larger than life stuff. They Like to be a public Image.They are very straight forward, if he Like you he will accept it immediately, in case he is already engaged he will back off immediately, so play your cards right.
Possibly you can try either of these steps:
1. If he is frequent listener of a particular Radio Channel, Propose to him Live on Air.
2. In any kinda a stage show, may be award function etc ... Propose to him in Public.
3. Prepare Dinner for him at your place, play soft romantic music, while having a ball dance with him move close to him, whisper in his ears and kiss him on his cheek.
Note: There are many more improvised methods, it completely depends on the individual.
Note: I would like to be proposed in either of the three ways mentioned above, but what excites me is the third method.
How do you know if you are in LOVE ?
Are You In Love or Is It Infatuation ?
Sometimes, we develop a particular fondness for the person, he/she may be friend or person whom you had know for a very short time.We just can’t stop thinking about him/her, it seems like she has conquered your thoughts and we are left at a crossroad of our feelings, day and night we ask ourselves the same question again ..... Have we fallen in love? .....Do I Love Her? .....
Love is indeed a wonderful thing. But we need to be sure whether its just an infatuation were you encounter similar feeling of sleepless nights, loss of appetite, eagerness to meet her .... etc ..... but just the basic difference is that infatuation tends to fade with passage of time. So how do we know that it’s love ... or infatuation? How could we be sure that the other person is not only the object of our thoughts, but the object of our hearts as well ?
Here are some signs that would help us say that what we’re feeling is indeed love.
1. Changes in daily activities.
2. Becoming self-consious for minor things. Rather becoming more responsible.
3. Trying to adapt yourself to his/her likings.
4. Trying to dress up to impress him/her.
5. Think of him/her, what he/she is doing, how he/she looks.
6. Eagerness to Meet her.
7. Trying to be a better person.
8. Expecting some magic to happen, like expecting a call from him/her.
9. Heart panting when you meet and talk to him/her.
10. Unable to make constant Eye Contact.
11. As soon as you meet her try to escape from that place thinking other are watching you.
12. Guilt of being caught by friends (this does not happen if you are just friends).
13. When you are alone with that person, feel like holding her hands.
14. Filmy Thought of hugging her, holding her in your arms, her head on you shoulder.
15. Trying to find oppertunities to invite her for a date.
16. And possibly indication is you start writing his/her names everywhere (absentmindedly).
These are the similar feelings you have when you have infatuation for the person. Now with every step u take forward you become more matured & responsible. Building the trust is the most important thing and for building the trust you now know what are the recepies required. Just to re-iterate - BE HONEST, BE TRUE, BE VERY OPEN and TRY NOT TO HIDE ANYTHING.
In Love more than a lover you need to be a good friend and thats the starting point for trust to develop.
Differentiate Between Infatuation & Love
How would you Differentiate between Infatuation & Love?When you meet someone for the first time, the persons appearance leaves an impression in your mind.
Lets imagine a Boy meeting a Girl for the first time, he might be impressed by the way she is dressed up, rather the kind of dress she is wearing, the way she combs her hair.
These facts grab your attention, then the focus moves to how she look, he makeup and stuff .... etc. All these has grabbed his attention so much that he decides on taking the next step forward, he wants to be with her, he wants to know more about her. This is where infatuation is building up, rather the interest is building up.
Now they become friends, knows more about the girls and she really seems to fascinate him and luckily she is single. The infatuation has reached it limits, she has conquered his dreams, he is actually in pain, he is lost his sleep. The infatuation has started molding and slowing its forming a B'ful shape which people call love.
Now here is the turning point. The Boy decides to propose the Girl. There can be 2 outcome:
1. Rejection: if the girl rejects, the story ends in an Infatuation.
2. Acceptation: if the girls accepts, the story has a new beginning a Love Story.
Infatuation and Love; they nothing different, its same kind of feeling. Infatuation is just one sided interest where the other person is unaware of your feelings, where as in Love both share the same kind of feelings.
Enjoy Life & Make Ur Love Life successful
How to enjoy life ? How to be successful in Love ?
If you understand the full meaning of LOVE, then only you’ll know why I believe that LOVE cannot fail.
There are two very strong things in life i.e. Love and Life, and Love happens to be the greatest of the two.
Love has a relation with your heart, bcoz True love comes from the heart. Its an over flow of emotion.
Love though it means one thing, there are different ways you express it.
For Example:
You love your mother/father, you sister/brother, your girlfriend/boyfriend (or wife/husband) and your children (if any). They are different when expressed. You cannot express the same love to your sister/brother or your mother/father that you express to your wife/husband. Am I Correct ?
Now think why does your fail only with your girlfriend but not with you mother or sister. Think ..... !!!
Your mother/father and your sister/brother knows you very well and they have adjusted to your kinda life style, but with your girlfirend/boyfriend where does the problem lies. The points below tells you how to build a successful relation:
1. She/He is a new member in your life and takes for anyone to get adjusted to a new relation or bonding.
2. You need to be very patient and think before you take any action.
3. Know the person very well, his/her likes & dislikes.
4. You need to be responsible for every action of yours.
5. Try to be less possessive, let him/her live the way they like to
6. Do not set boundaries, once you start setting boundaries you become a slave
7. Give time for the relation to ripe.
Once you feel you are entering a successful relation, here you need to be more careful, a smallest mistake can shatter your dreams. While you do all this to slowly build a successful relation remember one think, BE HONEST, BE TRUE, BE VERY OPENand TRY NOT TO HIDE ANYTHING.
These 4 things form the word TRUST. And this is how you trust each other and bonding become stronger.
Note: These are facts that I gained through my Experiences.
- Kriesh Raj
What Happened To Me Yesterday?
What Happened To Me Yesterday,
Was something I never expected?
She clearly knew what I felt for her
But still she never accepted
She knows that she had hurt me
But never tried to understand
Were my feelings really true, and
After her reply where did I stand?
That day honestly, I found
Myself in no mans’ land, and
She never cared for the feelings that
Splashed within when I touched her.
Today I’m totally a different man
I don’t feel the same for her anymore
If she ever approaches me, my
Answer will always be no for her.
I always wish that she remain happy, and
All her wishes come true
But as of today she’s just a friend, and
This feeling will never change, that’s for true.
Many girls had come into my life,
I’d never thought of making them my wife.
They all can be counted as infatuation,
But for Her I had a true affection.
In those 3 days she changed my life
She changed my behavior & attitude.
With all that happened to me, my
Life got a new dimension and altitude.
Every time she stays near me, those
Unwanted memories flash in my mind.
I cannot stop thinking of her, and
My heart goes through that same agony & pain.
“I’d wish to forget everything
But for sure you’ll always be my friend
If you wish to be the same with me
I’ll always be there for you till the end.
I want to forget what happened in the past
I wish to go for a fresh new start
As good friends to the horizon we fly
I’ll be waiting for your reply.”
What Happened To Me Yesterday,
Was something I never expected?
She knew what I felt for her
But still she never accepted.
- ADP
Was something I never expected?
She clearly knew what I felt for her
But still she never accepted
She knows that she had hurt me
But never tried to understand
Were my feelings really true, and
After her reply where did I stand?
That day honestly, I found
Myself in no mans’ land, and
She never cared for the feelings that
Splashed within when I touched her.
Today I’m totally a different man
I don’t feel the same for her anymore
If she ever approaches me, my
Answer will always be no for her.
I always wish that she remain happy, and
All her wishes come true
But as of today she’s just a friend, and
This feeling will never change, that’s for true.
Many girls had come into my life,
I’d never thought of making them my wife.
They all can be counted as infatuation,
But for Her I had a true affection.
In those 3 days she changed my life
She changed my behavior & attitude.
With all that happened to me, my
Life got a new dimension and altitude.
Every time she stays near me, those
Unwanted memories flash in my mind.
I cannot stop thinking of her, and
My heart goes through that same agony & pain.
“I’d wish to forget everything
But for sure you’ll always be my friend
If you wish to be the same with me
I’ll always be there for you till the end.
I want to forget what happened in the past
I wish to go for a fresh new start
As good friends to the horizon we fly
I’ll be waiting for your reply.”
What Happened To Me Yesterday,
Was something I never expected?
She knew what I felt for her
But still she never accepted.
- ADP
Interesting Facts !! Are these are rite by any chance?
Doubtful …. !!! Specially about the Girl Fact, hmm they should be, Hats off to the person who has worked on this, but the Guy Fact is correct, I can Bet on that.
Trust me Girls are always confusing ;)
Girl Facts:
When a girl bumps into your arm while walking, she wants you to hold her hand.
When she wants a hug, she will just stand there.
When you break a girl’s heart, she still feels it when u runs into each other 3 years later.
When a girl is quiet, Millions of things are running through her mind.
When a girl is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.
When a girl looks at you with eyes full of questions, she is wondering how long you will be around.
When a girl answers, "I'm fine,” after a few seconds, She is not at all fine.
When a girl stares at you, she is wondering why you are so wonderful.
When a girl lays her head on your chest, she is wishing for you to be hers’ forever.
When a girl says that she can't live without you, she has made up her mind that you are her future.
When a girl says, "I miss you,”, No one in this world can miss you more than her.
When a girl is mean to you after a breakup she wants you back, but she's scared she'll get hurt and knows you’re gone forever.
Guy Facts:
When a guy calls you, he wants to be with you.
When a guy is quiet, he’s listening to you...
When a guy is not arguing, he realizes he's wrong.
When a guy says, "I'm fine,” after a few Minutes, he means it.
When a guy stares at you, he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do.
When you're laying your head on a guy’s chest, he has the world.
When a guy calls you every day, he is in love.
When a (good) guy tells you he loves you, he means it.
When a guy says he can't live without you, he’s with you till you’re done.
When a guy says, "I miss you,” he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else.
Let me know what do you think about these facts.
My Inspiration & More About Me
I get hurt very easily, I and have felt the pain when u get hurt.
All my poem are experiences collected from different people who had trusted me and shared their pain with me, and these poems are dedicated to them.
I have seen people falling in Love, getting hurt in Love, Failing in Love, but Life has to go on.
I too had liked someone rather loved someone, tried to give her all the happiness because she was one of them who had suffered the pain of getting Hurt in Love, but she was never ready to accept me because she still loves the person, I respect her feelings and I always pray that she deserves the best in her life.
I hate hurting people; and I Believe in one thing:
No one can see your heart, they can only see what you show them, so why show your pain and make others weep, always keep smiling and make others smile, it spreads joy and when you be a part of that joy you forget your pain no matter even if it’s for a moment.
Keep Smiling and Spread Joy.
My Poems explain what I'm
True Love
No One knows what’s the Meaning of Love.
In today's world it's like a pair of glove.
You buy a fresh one every time
You use it once,
You don't care for the second time.
If you ever understand love from depth,
You can never ever part with it
Even after your death.
Love is something that can never be explained,
But with it, even the wildest
Beast can be tamed.
Love never exists where you search for Beauty,
Beauty is found only where there is True Love
It's like a pair of your favorite dress
That you hate to lose,
For which, you feel the pain when it’s torn,
Or the fire that burns within when it's lost.
For which you are very possessive
Which you'd always hate to share,
And about which you are very obsessive.
This is what you call is True Love, which
When sought is good, but
Given unsought is even better.
In Love, Always love the heart that hurts you
But, never hurt the heart that Loves you
Because,
For the World You Are Someone
But, for Someone You Are The World
So, When You Love someone
Always remember,
Beauty doesn’t create love
It’s Love that creates Beauty, and
The Heart is the Music, you'd love to
Play it, but Never Play with It.
And, what makes,
The person you love dearer,
It's not the Happiness you feel
When you meet them, but
It's the Pain that you feel when you part them.
This is "True Love"
Have you ever Experienced it? I Have
Just try it out once, and
You'd love to fall in LOVE.
- ADP
Those Three Day
Those Three Days of my life
I never knew what to decide
What pain I had gone through
No one ever wished to realize.
It seemed that I had lost everything,
But today what I feel is that
I haven’t lost anything, but
Instead I’ve gained something
Today I’m once again happy
All that you can say is I'm lucky
The wind has changed it direction
The future as before made its prediction
That was the day when I had proposed
In front of everyone I said, I liked her.
She who was never for me, It was
My foolishness to be crazy for her.
You get lot of excuses on the way
But all depends how u put them to play
It was for a girl the first time i cried
But for now the tears have all dried
None knows how much i loved her
But all that seemed a joke to her
I too want her to feel the pain but
But there won’t be anything for her to gain
She will know this someday in her life
But that day will be late for her decide
That day she will have no excuses to choose
But all that's left for her is to loose.
Those Three Days of my life
I never knew what to decide
What pain I had gone through
No one ever wished to realize.
- ADP
Tears Roll Down
Tears roll down my cheeks
Every night when I go to sleep.
She has still occupied the space
Somewhere in my heart very deep.
Whenever i see her, my
Heart beats like anything,
B'coz for that single day
She meant to me everything.
The words that parted my lips
Were emotions uncontrolled
When my hands touched her palm
Through the fingers me feelings rolled
My way of approach, I know
Was a method counted wrong
But what to say for now,
That time is now far away gone.
My Feelings were true and
It remained the same, but from
Her attitude it showed, that she
Wasn’t interested to play the game.
All started simply as a joke, and
I don't know how deeply i fell for her
But what happened that day, made
Me realize, my love was true for her.
For some day, I strongly say
She will be there in my heart.
But with lapse of time
She is for sure gonna part.
Today i got to know,
That she was never for me
What happened was
Something pre-destined for me.
Tears roll down my cheeks
Every night when i go to sleep.
She has still occupied the space
Somewhere in my heart very deep.
Every night when I go to sleep.
She has still occupied the space
Somewhere in my heart very deep.
Whenever i see her, my
Heart beats like anything,
B'coz for that single day
She meant to me everything.
The words that parted my lips
Were emotions uncontrolled
When my hands touched her palm
Through the fingers me feelings rolled
My way of approach, I know
Was a method counted wrong
But what to say for now,
That time is now far away gone.
My Feelings were true and
It remained the same, but from
Her attitude it showed, that she
Wasn’t interested to play the game.
All started simply as a joke, and
I don't know how deeply i fell for her
But what happened that day, made
Me realize, my love was true for her.
For some day, I strongly say
She will be there in my heart.
But with lapse of time
She is for sure gonna part.
Today i got to know,
That she was never for me
What happened was
Something pre-destined for me.
Tears roll down my cheeks
Every night when i go to sleep.
She has still occupied the space
Somewhere in my heart very deep.
- ADP
Love is Blind
You’ll live in my dreams, and
I'll see the world through your eyes.
Though I have never seen you,
I have loved you with every touch.
It doesn’t matter whether you are b'ful,
All that mattered was your lovely heart.
You don't know how much I loved you.
You know not how much I cried for you.
I never knew that it was
Only me who loved you.
Your words enchanted me,
Your eyes mesmerized me.
I could never control my emotions
And I loved you more for what u were.
I never knew that this day would come,
My feelings for you would all go in Vain.
You never cared for what I felt,
Though my feelings said it all.
How could you be so hard hearted?
How could you be so insane?
But no matter what I'll never blame you
It’s your life and your decision.
Nothing more to say, but to let you know
I'll never forget you; you'll be there in my heart,
With every breath I take, you will survive.
And all that I wish is your happiness.
You’ll live in my dreams, and
I'll see the world through your eyes.
This all that I wanted, but what to say
You were always right.
I'll see the world through your eyes.
Though I have never seen you,
I have loved you with every touch.
It doesn’t matter whether you are b'ful,
All that mattered was your lovely heart.
You don't know how much I loved you.
You know not how much I cried for you.
I never knew that it was
Only me who loved you.
Your words enchanted me,
Your eyes mesmerized me.
I could never control my emotions
And I loved you more for what u were.
I never knew that this day would come,
My feelings for you would all go in Vain.
You never cared for what I felt,
Though my feelings said it all.
How could you be so hard hearted?
How could you be so insane?
But no matter what I'll never blame you
It’s your life and your decision.
Nothing more to say, but to let you know
I'll never forget you; you'll be there in my heart,
With every breath I take, you will survive.
And all that I wish is your happiness.
You’ll live in my dreams, and
I'll see the world through your eyes.
This all that I wanted, but what to say
You were always right.
It’s said That Love is Blind, but
I forgot Blind do not have the right to Love.
-ADPI forgot Blind do not have the right to Love.
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